A day at the school

I had the chance to go to the school the other day to spend some time with the big girls. They are always begging me to come but with 3 little ones at home, I can't seem to get up there as often as they or I would like. The occasion this time, however, was Abigail's presentation of her biography box on Florence Nightingale. She had worked hard for weeks putting it together, researching on the internet and in the library, and typing up her report, learning all kinds of interesting things about Florence Nightingale. I was proud of her work and glad to be there to watch her share the final product of her efforts. Abigail is a very diligent and consciencious student and we are grateful that she is doing so well in school.







After spending time with Abigail, I went to Maggie's class to have lunch. Of course I had the baby with me and she was an instant hit. Maggie had a moment of popularity pushing her new sister around the playground, however she wasn't too happy about it. Maggie doesn't enjoy crowds or attention too much. Juliet didn't seem to mind though.

Xander finishes soccer

Xander just finished his first season of soccer and we are proud of him. He wasn't exactly passionate about it, but he enjoyed himself and had fun with the other kids. Joseph was the assistant coach too. All in all, it was a great way to spend a Saturday morning. And Xander is pretty proud of the trophy he got for participating on the team "Shooting Stars."

Happy Birthday Maggie!

Maggie celebrated an important birthday on February 8th this year (and Abigail kept reminding us all that it was her "golden birthday" turning 8 on Feb. 8.) I guess she was pretty impressed with my abilities in cake-making when she saw Ella's horse cake awhile back. She spent months planning and talking about the butterfly cake that I was going to make her. So I managed to pull off another cake, and she had the most fun decorating it with candy and frosting.

One thing we all love about Maggie is that she has the greatest expressions. You can't help but see pure joy on her face after opening a make your own kaleidoscope kit. She also got a set of scriptures for her upcoming baptism.

Happy Birthday Abigail!

Abigail celebrated her 10th birthday on January 18th this year. I know this is rather cliche to say, but I can't believe 10 years have gone by. We have a marathon of birthdays in our family, starting Nov. 30th with Ella, then Juliet in Dec, followed by Abigail and then Maggie a few weeks later and Joseph in mid Feb. I guess winter is a good time for babies in our family. This year, Abigail wanted to try something creative for her birthday cake: birthday waffles. We made a chocolate cake mix and cooked it in our waffle iron. Then everyone got to put on their own toppings which included frosting, chocolate syrup, sprinkles, ice cream and whip cream. Putting 10 candles on Abigail's waffle was interesting but we did it. It turned out to be really fun and so yummy.

Green is for Garden (and monster too)

Here are some cute pictures I took recently. Kids grow up so fast and I realize that if you don't stop to take a picture or make a record, it kind of slips by and becomes forgotten. Xander is really into monsters and dinosaurs. One of his favorite books is Where the Wild Things Are. Kind of like Max, he puts on his wolf suit, only his is green dinosaur PJ's with this tale. He wears this tale in and around the house and outside with what ever clothes he has on (only he likes the green PJ's best with the green tale.) But luckily he doesn't make much mischief of one kind or another. He is a pretty nice boy and loves his sisters, especially Maggie. He recently had tonsillitis for the second time with a high fever that got up to 105.5.

Since we moved into our new house, we have a couple areas where we can plant things. The soil is bad though and while, these cucumbers may look like they are thriving, the blooms turn into little cucumbers and then die off. Maggie started these from seed and watches over them like a mother hen. This is the first cucumber to harvest and she is so proud. We chopped it up and put it in our salad. Out back we also have an eggplant which currently has 8 eggplants growing (again, Maggie checks it faithfully and keeps me up to date,) a very small lemon tree with a few lemons, a papaya tree with 2 papayas, and a guava tree. We harvested our first guava and no one really liked it. Hopefully someone will help me eat the second one that is almost ready. I hate to waste it. I've actually really taken to eggplant. It is so yummy fried and served with soy sauce (my maid taught me that) or chopped up and added to lasagna.

The Little Girls

At first we had "the girls," meaning Abigail and Maggie. Then we added Xander. Once Ella was born they became "the big girls." Now with Juliet, we have the big girls, Xander, and the little girls. I hope they will be as good of friends as the big girls.

I got the camera out to take some pictures of Juliet and Ella started striking poses, begging for pictures. I thought this one was funny. For the most part, she ignores Juliet. Her favorite thing to do with the baby is put a binkie in her mouth when she cries.

Here is a fragment of a poem I came across (as quoted by Thomas S. Monson):

You never know what a girl is worth,

You'll have to wait and see;

But every woman in a noble place,

A girl once used to be.

I love being surrounded by so many sweet and fun girls; and I am anxious to see the noble women and mothers they will become someday.

And the winner is . . .

So Juliet is a little angel, fussy at times, but we love her. I have this song stuck in my head from a TV show in the 80's: You take the good, you take the bad, you take it all, and there you have the facts of life, the facts of like. (You have to sing it to realize how catchy it is--anyone from my generation probably remembers the show--big hair and Blair.) The first couple days home from the hospital, Juliet fussed or screamed every waking moment. But she slept well at night thankfully. Then as the days wore on, on a good day, she would be awake for a whole hour without crying. Wow, progress. By now I had come to terms with the fact that we might have a colicky baby. I had one before and still have scars (Maggie) so I was in denial at first. But on a bad day . . . well, sometimes the screaming would last 3 or more hours and even repeat again. Then the night crying started and that is the worst. We felt bad for her because we could hear the rumbling, hissing, gurgling and churning in her stomach as she screamed and pulled her feet up. In desperation, I grabbed hold of anything I could to ease her and our pain. This is what I came up with:

Coolest looking goes to bottle number 1: Woodward's Gripe Water. It looks like something out of 19thc Cranford. It is much more charming than it is efficacious though, but I think I'll keep it on the diaper changer anyway because I like to look at it.

Best name goes to bottle number 3: Rid Wind. Gas is called "wind" here. It's kind of quaint. Doesn't seem to help our little windy one though.

Worth its weight in gold goes to bottle number 2: Baby's Bliss Gripe Water. With ginger and fennel in it, it even smells blissful. It has been a life saver. I will always be grateful to my friend who introduced me to it and even gave me this bottle. How did I survive 4 others kids without it?

In these cases, no remedy is fool proof except for time. But for impatient (and tired) folks like me, it has been helpful to try and do something. I am happy to report that, almost 5 weeks out of the starting gate, there are now more good days than bad days. Juliet is thriving and weighs 11.1 pounds. When I give her the Baby's Bliss, she quiets down, the noise actually increases in her bowels for awhile but without any painful crying and she eats better and sleeps better.